Rayne: There’s been a lot of debate recently about what constitutes losing one’s virginity. Rayne: While at one time a very clear concept, with the growing number of gays and lesbians, it’s become evident that a broader distinction must be made to classify being and not being a virgin. Rayne: As always, I have the answer. Rayne: You are not a virgin if you have engaged in a 69 Rayne: Let us no longer bicker, my straight, gay and lesbian friends. Rayne: Let us all 69.