Issa: In the middle ages, men used to joust in tournaments, often times suffering serious injury or death. Issa: Even in the 50’s of this century, men would race their cars against each other in an attempt to be the best. Issa: What I want to know is since when did men holding hands become a way of showing who the alpha male is? Rayne: Ok, that was a pretty random thought to share. Rayne: Jousting in cars would be interestingâ